Man and Machine...

In the world of men...they tend to become machines...
The easiest and the best way of living is to be what you are...and the toughest thing to do...is to live the life as others want you to live...
Others often try to make you like someone unknown...and since you are doing the toughest thing in your life...you donot enjoy these moments...then why do you behave the way...others want you to...
Dont do this...be yourself...thats the most enjoyable way...
I will like to convey this to everyone verbally...but at times circumstances make me to write it in words...
BE THYSELF...and nothing else...

Speed...but why...

People say I keep on running arround always...but why...is it that I want to show off..."look I can do things faster" sort off...few ppl think in that way too...unfortunately they are on the wrong track...

So whats the philosophy...Consider a case...that u have given some job to do...let it be any job at home or at workplace...let it be walking, eating, writing, typing, anything...now if you also want to do something that you enjoy much more than this...they you will always think of completing the first one earlier...or is it that you want to keep on doing something that doesnot enchant you...and keep on doing the first activity...no...never...

Same is true with me...my speed of doing something increases...provided it satisfies two conditions...first...I know how to do it...second...I dont like doing it...take an example...one can easily notice that I walk speedily...but only when I am alone...why...because...first...I know how to walk...nothing new in it...and second...I dont like walking alone...When in company...I like to match the speed of my mate...again...if I am in company of someone and also in hurry...that means I want to get involved with that someone in some other activity...something other than what we are doing now...

Moreover...am a slow learner...nothing bad in knowing the shortcoming...why...because I enjoy the process of learning...let it be anything...learning a new recipe...learning a new concept...learning some new way of living...I will enjoy every bit of this learning process...and will take my own time...may be I will take months...

So whenever you see me doing something fast and quick...believe me...at that instant am doing something that has satisfied the two conditions...first...whatever am doing is not new to me...second...am not enjoying doing that...

And whenever you see me at slower pace...then dont be under the impression that am emotionally down...(at times am emotionally down but at those times the scenario is different)...first...am either discovering the method of doing that activity...or am really enjoying the activity am involved into...

So thats the way I am...this helps me to complete the activities which I dont like in minimum possible time...and enjoy the rest of the time doing what is really enjoyable...enjoy with family, friends, activities which are really interesting (may be at work or some other place)...finally one cant always get to do those things which he enjoys all the time...one has to balance likes and dislikes...

Cheer Up...Please...

kahich suchat nahiye...doka aagdi pack zalaye...fakt ekach gosht lakshyat yeteye...jagaycha aahe...ani kitihi radu aala...tari hasaycha aahe...

Thats the spirit...and thats the real me...will always keep on looking for that company...but in all the phases will keep on smiling...And this is what you should do in your bad times...

Here is something for you all...

I may not be able always to spare time for you...my friends and relatives...but I will always be there with you...in your good and bad times...within you...

I may not be able to wipe off your tears...but I will always pray for your happiness...

I may not be able to walk with you...but my mind will always revolve around you...

I may not be able to ask you for something...but my soul will always ask for your smile...

I may not be able to attend your presense...but will always try to be present whenever you will ask for...

I may not be able to overcome the barrier...but always welcome you whenever you overcome...

Phases of Moon...nahi re...Phases of Shakes...

Yes thats the truth...everyone goes through phases...even Shakes has gone thru...since started walking...this is what happenned...

Till May 05 - never cared about the world...

May 05 - lost his father...got a bit nervous...presurrised...thought that now he has to take care of everything...

June 05 - rejuvenated...decided to take over worries...and take responsibilities...

July 05 - joined his first ever job...gained confidence...

Dec 05 - got inspired...started planning about the future...

Aug 06 - started gaining confidence in relations...wanted to convey...started attempting...

Dec 06 - confidence got substituted by over-confidence...but still didnot convey...

Jan - Feb 07 - Over-confidence paid in reverse direction...started feeling insecure...wanted to maintain cool...but fear resulted in aggression...

Mar - Apr 07 - Insecurity and aggression resulted into worries...never wanted to behave like this...but it was out of control...thought as if getting betrayed...

May 07 - lost everything...what was called "mine"...

June 07 - landed on a point of no return...but still hoped to get back...was not able to accecpt that it was lost...

July 07 - planning to start everything afresh...getting rejuvenated...want to hit opportunities...which are there...slowly gaining his confidence back...lets hope that this is the beginning...

and the bond year 007' continues...it will move on...

Thats life...and it will continue...with dreamzzzz...

I dont know how to start...I am not feeling well today...and thats why am
at home...enjoying some free time with my people at home...and thats
the time when I also think of my people who are not in front of me at
home...I have always thought of big things...big dreams...achieving the
targets that people consider impossible...Even impossible says I M
Possible...thats what I think...but in the process...many times I fail
to think about the small moments...In these small moments lives the
whole world...which makes everyone happy...even I want to enjoy these
small moments...extract happiness from them...but thats beyond my
ability...(its better to know the shortcoming)...so I always try to
pair up with those who are the masters of these small but precious
moments...who know how to live these small moments...

At the same time...I know I dream big...Getting into the group where I
am working now...was one of those big dreams...its a reality now...when
I had dreamt abt getting in there...I didnt even knew what does it
do...I just knew that it is some place with a massive gate...which I
cannot cross at that moment...and it has a good playground in front of
the school...where we used to go to play cricket...I was just 12...but
I always wanted to get in from that gate...As I grew up...I discovered
more about the place...the group...the ways of getting in
there...followed those paths...worked on them...and now I am into it...

One such big dream...is getting retired at 45 as an employee...and then
become the employer of the self...and the biggest ever dream is to
enjoy every moment of the life...may be the former wont turn into
reality...but the latter means a lot...Dont live for the money...dont
live for the work...but live for the people around you...and am not the
only one of the kind...responses to the blog..."I want good work...neee
I wanna money"...is a measure of the fact that there are many more to
think like me...Fun should be the first criterion...and when its not
fun then move on...bcoz fun comes when u take over all ur worries...it
wont come from running away from your worries...these worries are
direct consequences of expectations...so expectations are the biggest
hurdle in having fun...and so in achieving dreams...

So dont expect but dream...seems contradictory...no...not at all...when
you expect...you want others to do something...when you dream...you
want yourself to do something...I-factors and THEY-factors...so you
play your part...and if you want to have fun then dont expect anything
from others...let them follow thier own heart...so if you dream to keep
your people happy...then do good for them...but dont expect any good in
return...only then you will have fun...achieve your dreams...am jotting
this down...bcoz i have experienced this...

I had expected a lot from those whom I called mine...Even getting
called mine...was an expectation...that did nothing but brought worries
both for me and them...Vinash kalin viprit buddhi...was what happenned
next...no fun only worries...so when there is no fun then move on...but
if you move on then what about the dream...those can be turned into
reality only when there is fun...and please dont expect anything in
return for what you do...that will only kill...Those who care for
you...will do good to you even if you dont expect...and those who dont
care for you...will never do what you expect...Let them decide if they
care...If I care for them then I ll keep on doing good for them...even
on moving they will be mine...but this time I wont expect anything in
return...But I will keep on chasing my dream...My dream of making them
happy will come true...and in return this fact will make me
happy...Enough of theory for now...now its the time for the
practicals...thats it!!

This was the 13th blog in the series...still 87 left for the
century...Keep celebrating the BOND year 007'...

And last but not the least...it was 7/7/7 yesterday...and there was a
grand function at Lisbon...and the 7th announcement at the function for
declaring new 7 wonders of this world...on the 7th day of the 7th month
of the the 7th year...also the 7th day of the week (Saturday)...was our
own TAJ MAHAL...one more dream came true...TAJ tops...